Why Marriage is not an option for Men..!!

March 27, 2012

A must watch video.

http://tiny.cc/2zntbw 

Ironically this video is by a woman, analysing why marrying is a big disadvantage for today’s man. How even a below average looking and older women still expect ‘Brad Pitts’ and ‘Leanardos’ though ultimately they marry ‘loosers’ for their financial security and their ticking biological clock. Of course only to milk these ‘loosers’ till they have enough assets that they can divorce them and get away with half their assets and join their cougar sisters.

Friends, this is the reality of the west and it’s trickling down to other parts of world. Choice is yours – do you want to be ‘milked’ by the institution of marriage till the day when you are 50 and your wife kicks you out of your house and gets her younger and virile secret lover in house and bed which you bought from your hard earned money

OR

Opt to stay single. Date as many women as you can (of course play safe – physically and legally). Focus on your career, business, mint money and take care of your old parents and siblings. May be adopt a child (as they say why buy a cow when you can get milk from the supermarket)..

Feminists and Alpha males

May 1, 2010

Feminists and Alpha Males vs. Civilization

http://www.the-spearhead.com/2010/04/29/feminists-and-alpha-males-vs-civilization/

http://tinyurl.com/22u4xpy

Synopsis

A very good discussion as to how the alpha males (also referred to as pseudo-feminists) in the ‘developed’ world have contributed to deep penetration of feminist agenda in the government, judiciary (gender biased laws) etc and how this will subsequently lead to destruction of such societies.

We can see the similar transition happening in Indian society where some power hungry politicians (alpha males or pseudo-feminists) are promoting gender-biased laws for women india in the pretext of winning the next election. They don’t want to think that what will happen to the society if these laws carry on abated for next 10-15 years. Total Chaos – where no men would want to marry,  single parents will grow like mushrooms.

How society sucks money from Men through tax system called Marriage.

April 24, 2010

Marriage is a legal trap which society expects a man to fall into and then money is sucked slowly slowly:-

  • By the society (or the govt) in terms of taxes – part of which go for welfare of single mothers (in some cases including his ex-wife)
  • By wife for her exorbitant expenses
  • By ex-wife for her maintenance
  • By ex-wife for his children’s maintenance whom the men gets to see just once a week.

I think my thoughts may be construed as very unorthodox but if you think rationally they stand very true – at least in today’s society.

(read my related post Why men shouldn’t marry)

Why Men shouldn’t marry?

April 24, 2010

  • Marriage has become a social and legal trap for men in today’s society. Just because 90% men do it doesn’t mean that marriage or having a partner is the only way to happiness.
  • Who says you need a wife or partner to have a child? You can easily have a surrogate child with 1/100000 the cost of wife. Take 1 year off to take care of the child and then use creches (or day care) while you do part time work. Is it that hypothetical?
  • Men have a misconception that wife will look after them when they grow old. In today’s world the chance of your marriage surviving till you are old is very minimal. And even if you marriage survives what makes you think she’ll take care of you.
  • No marriage or partner means Men can spend most of his money on things he want (not what his wife or the society or the courts want him to).
  • No marriage means men can spend more time on things he want to do
  • No marriage means that men can spend more time on their career and job and hence more money.
  • No marriage means men can take leave or leave job as and when he wants to do it

(read my related post How society sucks money from Men through tax system called Marriage.)

498a – Law for Sitas but used by Suparnakhas

April 22, 2010

498a is a law framed for Sitas but is used by the suparnakhas of our society – this is the crux of this draconian law.

In words of a senior advocate “These laws were made to protect real women facing ill-treatment and torture. But this has become a tool for extortion for upwardly mobile women, specially in the elite class. Average settlement of Rs 50-60 lakh is commonplace. And nobody is spared. I have cases of IAS, IPS officers, corporate managers and executives, commissioners. These laws were made for protection of Sitas but being potently misused by Surpnakhas.

This is so true. Some minority of women who are actually facing ill treatment but they never come out to use these laws but instead educated, mobile, greedy, unscrupulous women of today have been using these laws for years (unbelievable) to wreak havoc on their husbands and their family or in some cases extort huge sums of money (notable example is Shoaib Malik who had to cuff our 15 crores to escape 498a slapped on him by another unscrupulous women Ayesha ).

Shameful part is that our government is a mere spectator and just looks on as lakhs of innocent women (husband’s mothers and sisters) go to jail, families break, husbands commit suicide, children are orpaned. Down with this government !!!

Indian police station Vs Guantanamo bay ?

April 14, 2010

An Encounter With Delhi Police

http://www.outlookindia.com/article.aspx?262297

http://tinyurl.com/y3c298c

Synopsis

This is the treatment meted out to a foreign journalist by the Indian police who has got the protection of US embassy. Imagine the plight of a common man (e.g. the 17 year old mentioned in the article). Its not only menIndian police have been arresting hundreds of thousands of mothers and sisters without investigation just because their dauhter-in-law claimed that she was harassed for dowry. Human rights are made mockery of by the Indian police and then we have Indian govt. talking about India being a developing country.

Recently Shoaib Malik was extorted and blackmailed by the Indian police and he had to cough up 15 Crore (4 millon $) to a gold-digger who claimed to be his wife  and the Indian police.

Even in Guantanamo bay only hardened terrorists are beaten up but Indian police can not catch the terrorists so it believes in catching and beating up common man (and woman).

Feminism and vote bank politics

April 12, 2010

Feminism is the biggest vote bank in the world. (or that’s what the perception is..).. It is another form of appeasement of group .. to make them feel that they are under privileged and then fight for their ‘rights’ .. make them join for the ‘fight’ ( e.g. look at the appeasement of specific groups blacks in south africa, Muslims and SC/BCs in India)..

In India this appeasement is only for a group of women withing women. e.g. young daughter-in-laws are given all the ‘rights’ and ‘legal support’ in the world while the ‘sister-in-laws’ and ‘mother-in-laws’ are left to rot in Jail and no women welfare gives a second look at their plight.

Well if Men have to survive in this world they have no choice but to form a group and oppose this feminist lobby. Make sure a feminist doesnt even get a single men vote. Also its a duty of men to spread awareness and remove the ‘abla naari’ (aka Men is always the culprit) syndrome so prevalent in our society.

(Read my earlier post – Why Indian Men should wake up and fight)

Good Wives Guide – from the Archives of 1955

April 11, 2010

Before feminists start jumping up and down claiming that I have ‘degraded’ women, in my defense I would like to say that this is was published in Housekeeping Monthly May 13, 1955.

Daydreaming? I know. There is more probability of finding a Dodo or a Dinosaur on this earth than the species with the characteristics mentioned below.

—————————–Duties of a Good Wife——————————–

Have dinner ready. Plan ahead, even the night before, to have a delicious meal ready on time for his return. This is a way of letting him know that you have be thinking about him and are concerned about his needs. Most men are hungry when they get home and the prospect of a good meal is part of the warm welcome needed.

Prepare yourself. Take 15 minutes to rest so you’ll be refreshed when he arrives. Touch up your make-up, put a ribbon in your hair and be fresh-looking. He has just been with a lot of work-weary people.

Be a little gay and a little more interesting for him. His boring day may need a lift and one of your duties is to provide it.

Clear away the clutter. Make one last trip through the main part of the house just before your husband arrives. Run a dustcloth over the tables.

During the cooler months of the year you should prepare and light a fire for him to unwind by. Your husband will feel he has reached a haven of rest and order, and it will give you a lift too. After all, catering to his comfort will provide you with immense personal satisfaction.

Minimize all noise. At the time of his arrival, eliminate all noise of the washer, dryer or vacuum. Encourage the children to be quiet.

Be happy to see him.

Greet him with a warm smile and show sincerity in your desire to please him.

Listen to him. You may have a dozen important things to tell him, but the moment of his arrival is not the time. Let him talk first – remember, his topics of conversation are more important than yours.

Don’t greet him with complaints and problems.

Don’t complain if he’s late for dinner or even if he stays out all night. Count this as minor compared to what he might have gone through at work.

Make him comfortable. Have him lean back in a comfortable chair or lie him down in the bedroom. Have a cool or warm drink ready for him.

Arrange his pillow and offer to take off his shoes. Speak in a low, soothing and pleasant voice.

Don’t ask him questions about his actions or question his judgment or integrity. Remember, he is the master of the house and as such will always exercise his will with fairness and truthfulness. You have no right to question him.

A good wife always knows her place.

NCW supports only selective women

April 11, 2010

NCW ignores SC order on plight of widows

http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/NCW-ignores-SC-order-on-plight-of-widows/articleshow/5782592.cms

[http://tinyurl.com/ybeh5ng]

Synopsis

This is nothing new for NCW and WCD. Their support is for specific group of women only.  For example on one hand they support the unscrupulous women who file false cases on their husband, mother-in-law, sister-in-law but they do not support these innocent mother-in-laws and sister-in-laws who are jailed because of these false cases. Shame on NCW and WCD … and on Congress govt. to harbor these biased organisations..

You have been 498aed !!!

April 10, 2010

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